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Elsie L. Fagerlin, wife and mother, teacher and
writer, friend and inspiration to many, died May 25, 2009, from ovarian
cancer at the age of 92.
As a leader in the Lutheran church and
wife of a minister, she above all lived her faith. “I tell myself every
morning that the way I’m going to show my Christian concern is in the
way I handle problems at home or at work,” she told an interviewer in
1976. As an educator, she focused on the challenge of teaching adults to
read, whether it was preparing GIs to pass their GED test, helping
struggling college freshmen to learn grammar basics, privately tutoring
immigrants in her home, or directing the Olympia Literacy Program.
She was born Sept. 7, 1916, to Emma and
Harry Koch in Chicago, Ill., the youngest of four children – including a
twin brother, Elmer. She was raised in Chicago and was an honors
student, voted “most clever” of her high school graduating class. She
graduated from North Park College in the morning of June 6, 1936, and
that evening married her college sweetheart, the Rev. Carl W. Fagerlin.
“What a waste of an education!” an aunt remarked – an oft-quoted comment
that became a family joke, for the aunt was unarguably proven wrong.
Elsie and Carl raised three children
while serving churches in Michigan, Minnesota and Washington. As a
stay-at-home mom, she wrote Christian educational and devotional
materials. She became a leader in the church, serving on the national
executive council of the then-Lutheran Church of America (now
Evangelical Lutheran Church of America) as well as holding many other
national leadership positions. In 1971, she was part of a team of
Lutheran women who spent five weeks in Japan, sharing experiences and
insights with Christian women there.
After her children were raised, she
earned her teaching credentials and, at age 60, her master’s degree in
education. In addition to her literacy program activities, she taught at
Fort Lewis, under the auspices of Fort Steilacoom Community College, and
at St. Martin’s College in Olympia. Upon retirement, Elsie and Carl
moved to the Tacoma Lutheran Home. Carl died in 1995. Elsie continued
her leadership activities, serving as president of the Resident Council,
teaching Bible studies and steadfastly visiting ill and dying friends.
She has left a legacy of faith and
service for her survivors: daughter Carol Bucholz, Parkland; son Mark
and wife Ericka Fagerlin, Hendersonville, N.C.; daughter Mary Koch,
Omak, Wash., grandchildren Scott Daniels of Tacoma, Sandy and husband
Roy Chambers of Marysville, Wash., Carl and wife Jacqueline Fagerlin of
San Francisco and Eric Fagerlin of Rantoul, Ill.; great-grandchildren
Tony and Chloe Chambers and Patrick and Christopher Daniels;
daughter-in-law Virginia Baldwin of Walton, Neb., cherished friend Jean
Birkeland of Tacoma, and a host of friends all over the country.
A memorial service will be held at 2
p.m. Wednesday, June 3, at the Tacoma Lutheran Home chapel, 1301 N.
Highlands Parkway. Memorial donations are suggested to the Tacoma
Lutheran Home Foundation, 1301 N. Highlands Parkway, Tacoma WA 98406, or
Tacoma Area Literacy Council, P.O. Box 7210, Tacoma WA 98417-0210.
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